Common Responses To Warmth

Whenever it was taking a while for something to come, I realised I had to get either more relaxed and unblocked, or more precise with what I was communicating. We start with the body because that is the outermost layer and the one that is the most accessible to us …

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Searching For Quality

There aren't many rest stops along the way or any places where you can ask for directions. Some people worry before sleeping and wake up anxious and just stumble into their day without doing anything to help themselves, like meditating. You cannot stop fantasizing about what you would like to …

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This Is How It Feels

When you're sharing your feelings, acting like a victim, and complaining about what isn't fair, the person listening may actually care about you and be a good listener, but unconsciously, they're lowering your value in their mind. It is not a problem if the free T4 blood test actually goes …

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How To Recognize Negative Patterns

As Professor Burton Malkiel notes, however, "The academic community has rendered its judgment. If it really took off, not only would they make a fortune, but they would also have a decided impact on the economy, unleashing into the system thousands of savvy entrepreneurs. Often it is necessary to do …

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We Loathe Being In Their Company

What has your fingerprint on it in a way that no-one else could do? Had she not had the stroke, she likely would have continued to produce art and fill notearticles with writing until the day she died. Recent studies reveal that eating blueberries may help improve memory, as well …

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What Will Acting On Concord Provide?

Researchers at Harvard University and the University of North Carolina linked the consumption of high levels of trans-fatty acids--found in margarine, baked goods, and processed foods, among other products--to a greater risk of heart disease and breast cancer. They become lost in absorbing negative states that feed on themselves. Watermelon …

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No More Therapy

In part this draws from my last article, How to Not Always Be Working, breaking down what comes from where and how they are separate. While it is true that you should do everything you can about a situation before you go to bed, once you have done that, you …

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Try A Different Perspective

Therefore, we will fall short in our quest for improvement and health if we ignore this component. These people never have and never could harm anyone, but because the image comes up in their mind of doing something morally unacceptable, they think they are capable of doing it and punish …

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Create A To-Do List

Most of the time, the ladybug will calmly walk around and explore if no danger or food are detected in the area. I just had to make minor adjustments to a relatively finely-tuned routine--one that I'd developed myself, based on the advice of some of the world's leading experts of …

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Focus For A Moment On Your Posture

As a teacher of personal transformation, what I want to focus on with you is what we can do about it on a very personal basis, to decide, as philosopher and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl once said, to "live as if you were living a second time, and as though …

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You're Invited To My Life

We have the fear of missing out (FOMO), but that fear makes us treat our bodies in unhealthy ways. The irony of my views on this topic isn't lost on me, as someone who received a Genius Grant from the MacArthur Fellows Program. He told me, I feel they won't …

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As Long As We Can Sail Away

Freed up from a constant barrage of judgment, criticism, and shame, the body can begin to flourish. For one thing, we know that multiple regions of the brain--tied not only to memory but also to imagination, perception, and emotion--play roles in creating false memories. This could cause you to end …

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Harboring Fewer Worldly Desires

If a pile of delicious chocolate chips was placed behind a second closed door, the rats were as likely to free their cage mate as free the chocolate chips. Based on their experience and the map we had put together from the hundreds of responses from the Question of the …

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